Oct 26

How to Approach your Crush at the Gym

Posted by Wilson | Posted in gym exercises | Posted on 26-10-2009

Every man would like to have a beautiful, sexy girlfriend with a perfect body, with whom to be very proud and start the envy of all his friends. Let’s face it: there is no man on the street that will not look after an athletic body of a beautiful, attractive lady. But for many of them this remains only a dream because they don’t know where to meet this kind of woman and how to do it. The best place to meet a woman with an athletic body and in a very good shape is gym.

With the current attention being paid to healthy lifestyles, fitness has become a very important aspect of life today. That’s why more and more people decided to go to the gym. Let’s say that you are going to the gym for a long time and in the last days a new interesting girl is passing over here. She is very attractive and you would really like to know her better but you don’t know how to approach her.

Approaching a woman successfully is only one of the most stressful situation a man must face because you don’t know her, how she thinks, what she likes, and if she is friendly or not. But, if you make it carefully and know how to do it, you may have success. You may use these tips to approach your crush at the gym.

- first and the most important, if you want to be flirting with, don’t wear earphones, because it will inhibit her approaching you

- find something that you both do at the gym so you will be able to ask her advice about, or a machine that you both use, to have what to talk about

- you may talk to her about gym, sports, regimen, workout

- best way to start a conversation with her is to go to some machine near by her and ask if she is using it or not and just start talking afterwards

- first talk to her as a friend to see if she notice you

- use deodorant to make sure that you don’t smell bad, to not make a bad impression from the beginning

- try to catch her eye every time you see her and smile

- if she smiles you too you may approach her because she is interested

- pay attention and if she is having trouble with a machine or accessing an equipment you may offer your help in order to start a conversation with her

- you should try to get her phone number, but don’t look too desperate

- also you may try to bring an iPod with you and ask her if she knows a certain song

- if you decided to go near her and start a conversation you must know from the beginning what to say, so think first and then go

- accost her once she has just finished her set and ask if you can work with her, to make alternative exercises

- start to make accidental body contact

- when she is leaving you may say to her goodbye and ask her when she comes again, then she will have to talk to you next time she will see you

- you may ask her friendly for a cup of coffee somewhere near the club, you don’t have anything to lose

- spot her at the gym

- another important aspect is that you have to look very serious about your workout, so don’t stay and stare at girls; if she see that you are just fooling around she will notice that you are going to the gym just to date

Remember that you don’t have necessarily to become a personal trainer or to do yoga classes to get a beautiful lady which you’ve seen at the gym; you just have to take it carefully and know how to approach her.

Ovi Dogar
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Comments (9)

how to approach your crush when your crush knows you like him?
I’ve always wanted to talk to my crush but most of the time he’s with his friends and in the other hand I’m with my friends most of the time. by the way my crush knows i like him. but every time i like wanted to say something i get chicken out, i start to blush, and it just gets awkward..i wanna talk to him..but i never get a chance..what should i do?

well if your friends with him and your friends are also then try having them go with you and that way it will make the situation a little easier having their support.
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just walk up and grab his balls.
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just talk to him! put it in your mind that if you talk to him it will make you happy and you’ll enjoy every second of it!
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Just go ask him what the homework was for one class.
Be flirty.

hope I helped :D
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just be yourself..
that the only thing u can do.
just have more hope in your self
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You should talk to him like as if he was just another boy.
Don’t be nervous.
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You have to find that window of opportunity when it’s just the two of you. If your friends know how you feel, they should get a clue and leave you be long enough for you to get together.

Once you spend some time alone, you’ll have a better idea of how he feels about you. Remember, guys have the same insecurities and are just as shy as girls.
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Depends how old you are. Cause the older you are the better you could handle it.
But what you could do is step up to him & say like hey or something start a conversation. When you’re going to leave give him a friendly neck hug. Than just walk away & act like he doesn’t know that you like him. Trust me he’ll end up liking you. Cause guys like girls that are confident.
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